Laughter Through Tears

The evening had a party atmosphere from time to time: the nieces giggling, the brothers teasing and mildly inappropriate humor sprinkled in for good measure. We were all crammed together on one couch & loveseat, gathered around a hospital bed and Mariners game.

We had pizza and soda, each of fielding telephone calls from concerned friends & relatives from time to time. Each taking a break in the relative silence that the deck provided. Intimate moments were exchanged between spouses, siblings, parents and friends.

As the night grew on, we became a little more subdued and quiet. Kevin nodded off and we finished watching the game.

The Mariners beat the Oakland A's in overtime. A few minutes later Dad, who was resting quietly and comfortably for the first time in forever, took his last breath with nary a noise.

His work here was done. We were gathered together in the house he built 52 years ago. His kids & grandkids are safe & healthy. His wife of 53 years well provided for. And his beloved Mariners won the game. What more can a man ask for?

We all laughed that he waited for the game to finish. Now we imagine him holding a large glass of whiskey with a hand of cards, holding court with his friends who passed before him.

Gracefully, even the roughest warriors can make their way.....